Stefanie Frei looks back on the four years she's spent
playing softball at CSUB and realizes how far herself and her teammates have
come since the spring of 2008, when the 'Runners, a Division I transition
school, were just beginning their journey at the highest level of competition.
"I felt that as a team over the years we've just become more
mature," said Frei, who has earned a Bachelor of Arts degree in business administration
with a concentration on sports management. "We went from being freshmen playing
at UCLA and being in awe saying 'wow this is so cool,' to playing big-time teams
my senior year and treating it like any other game. The way we handled
ourselves got a lot better over the years."
While the stress and challenges of being a student athlete
are often loathed, Frei says playing softball actually made the college
experience, academically and socially, a lot easier.
"It was easy for me to adapt to everything as a student
athlete because you make friends so quickly with your team and it just made the
whole experience so much easier," she said. "I liked the small community aspect
of the school and the teachers kept you involved because the classes are so
small, it was really good for me to stay focused and I think being an athlete
just really helped with everything.
Frei's accomplishments on the diamond include a solid 2010
campaign when she hit .353 in the 'Runners inaugural season of play in the
Pacific Coast Softball Conference while logging eight multi-hit games. With some new-underclassmen power-hitters
coming into the CSUB lineup in 2011 Frei's numbers changed a little at the
plate, she only managed 96 at bats in 35 starts for CSUB, but hit .221 with a
team-second-best 6 doubles and a .958 fielding percentage in the CSUB outfield.
The ups and downs of college softball helped Frei learn a lot about herself
too.
"I learned how mentally tough I was and just built on that
when I was in a rough spot that I had to fight through," she said. "I learned a
lot about myself and how much I could take."
While her career includes plenty of on-field highlights, her
personal favorite being a catch at Santa Clara in the 2010 season that robbed
one of the Broncos of a three-run homerun, it was people that were her ultimate
highlight.
"I built a lot of relationships here and that was the
highlight for me," said Frei. The girls I met playing, the relationships that
didn't necessarily change me but helped me grow we're special."
Frei is now entering the job market, working with groups
like 'Athletes to Business' to try to help her start her career. She hopes to
work with a sports team in either event planning or public relations.
"I picked that because I've always liked sports and I always
told myself I wasn't going to have a boring job and I would do something I love,"
she said. "I loved all my sports management classes and I wanted to do something
after college that I loved as well."
As far as softball is concerned, Frei's playing days might
be over but she isn't ruling out the possibility of returning to the diamond
and coaching at the grass-roots-level of the sport.
"I think if I were to coach softball, I'd go back to Little League,"
she said. "Ask any player and at that time, your life was the sport, you had so
much fun playing it and I'd just like to be around those kids and teach them
and help them. It's really cool at that age."